My mil has Alzheimers. She has been getting physically abusive as of late. This is on top of the verbal abuse. I'm not trying to paint her in a bad way as she does not know what she is doing but this is taking a toll on my fil. He wants to take care of her. He does not want her to go to any type of facility.
I just got a call within the last hour that she was taken to the hospital, unresponsive but she did come to and is having a fit.
I don't know how my fil takes it. I think it is affecting his health as well. He looks like he is just so tired.
Of course, my opinions don't really matter because she is not my mother. Having said that, I think everyone needs to what is best for HER and not so much for themselves. I can only imagine what it would be like to have a parent in an Alzheimers facility but I know what it is doing to him mentally and physically. He is one tough dude but even the toughest need help.
Please pray for them!!